Modernize nvtx3 Include (#4774)

## Summary


https://github.com/NVIDIA/NVTX?tab=readme-ov-file#example-visualize-loop-iterations-on-a-timeline

## Additional background

## Checklist

The proposed changes:
- [ ] fix a bug or incorrect behavior in AMReX
- [ ] add new capabilities to AMReX
- [ ] changes answers in the test suite to more than roundoff level
- [ ] are likely to significantly affect the results of downstream AMReX
users
- [ ] include documentation in the code and/or rst files, if appropriate

Author: ax3l

Src/Base/AMReX_GpuDevice.cpp

@@ -20,7 +20,9 @@
 #if defined(AMREX_USE_CUDA)
 #include <cuda_profiler_api.h>
 #if defined(AMREX_PROFILING) || defined (AMREX_TINY_PROFILING)
-#if __has_include(<nvtx3/nvToolsExt.h>)
+#if __has_include(<nvtx3/nvtx3.hpp>)
+#  include <nvtx3/nvtx3.hpp>
+#elif __has_include(<nvtx3/nvToolsExt.h>)
 #  include <nvtx3/nvToolsExt.h>
 #else
 #  include <nvToolsExt.h>

Src/Base/AMReX_TinyProfiler.cpp

@@ -17,7 +17,9 @@
 #endif
 
 #ifdef AMREX_USE_CUDA
-#if __has_include(<nvtx3/nvToolsExt.h>)
+#if __has_include(<nvtx3/nvtx3.hpp>)
+#  include <nvtx3/nvtx3.hpp>
+#elif __has_include(<nvtx3/nvToolsExt.h>)
 #  include <nvtx3/nvToolsExt.h>
 #else
 #  include <nvToolsExt.h>