style: Fix C++ code linting

[chrispader]

This PR fixes issues with the local lint-cpp script and runs the script to fix styling

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Reconfigures clang-format (targeting package/cpp and ignoring sqlite) and reformats C++ sources with include/order and whitespace adjustments.

• Tooling:
  • Add .clang-format-ignore to ignore package/cpp/sqlite/*.
  • Update scripts/clang-format.sh to format package/cpp.
• C++ sources:
  • Apply formatting across files (NitroSQLiteException.hpp, operations.*, sqliteExecuteBatch.cpp, importSqlFile.cpp, specs/*, types.hpp, utils.hpp): reorders includes, adjusts spacing/line wraps, and normalizes initializer/parameter formatting.

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